Is it a deficiency in me as a Muslim woman that I couldn't take my spouse marrying another wife? I have no problems with the concept, it's just that it would hurt me and I've never seen it done in my own family even my grandparents from Muslim countries, so I have no frame of reference for it.¶
If one is a Shafi'i and has difficulty losing wudu when one touches one's wife, any advice on managing one's laziness to make wudu again or a Hanafi dispensation?¶